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My son is having to live in a school hostel as his mother is moving away to start a new job. If she no longer has the main day to day care for him then why should I pay her maintenance. Can anybody tell me if this would be the case!
Hi GR
Thank you for your post, I am William the Child Maintenance Options consultant. The definition of a receiving parent is the person has provides main day-to-day care of the child and is in receipt of the Child Benefit for that child.
Under child support legislation, regular child maintenance payments must be made until a child is 16 years old, or 20 if they are in full-time, non-advanced education (A-level or equivalent), or for as long as Child Benefit is being paid. Before 10 December 2012, the upper age limit was 19.
However, if your child was 19 after this date and in full-time education, maintenance would be paid until the age of 20. In addition, if arrears have built up on a case, those arrears must still be paid, even if regular child maintenance payments have stopped. When a child leaves full-time education in the summer, Child Benefit generally continues until the first week of September.
If you have concerns with your son not living with his mum any longer, then you may wish to contact HM Revenue and Customs regarding the Child Benefit. Please find their contact details below:
Website: www.taxcredits.inlandrevenue.gov.uk.
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William
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