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Hi everyone,
I am in need of some help if at all possible? I’ll try to keep it as brief as I can…
I was in a short relationship with somebody approx 7 years ago we called it off as she was cheating on me, I met somebody else and didn’t have contact with my ex.. I then found about roughly 2 months after being with my current partner (who I am still with now) that my ex was pregnant but she told me it was her new boyfriends (the one she cheated on me with) and it was left at that.
7 years later I receive a letter through the door wanting child maintenance? I am very confused as to where I stand I am in a big panic I haven’t seen her for 7 years or had contact with the child.
I have tried to contact her as I found her details on Google through a social media website but she will not reply to my messages!!
I really don’t know what to do or what to go from here so any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks,
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