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I am attending court soon and i currently pay £400 CMS it states if over 104 nights it will be £270 per month. i am really struggling financially so i need the payment to drop asap after court. i presume i send the CMS my court order and then they will adjust the amount i pay straight away? i am just after a bit of advice with this if possible.
Hi,
What arrangements are you seeking in court? After it's over you would send the final order to CMS, and they will calculate the shared care based on an average number of overnight stays per week.
1 night every week and Friday, Saturday every other weekend, plus 1 week in summer hols, etc
Hi,
What about fri-sun every other weekend, 1 week in xmas, easter, 2 weeks in summer? How old are the kids? You may find that you would want to spend more time with them in future, so would recommend you seek more time.
Hi,
What about fri-sun every other weekend, 1 week in xmas, easter, 2 weeks in summer? How old are the kids? You may find that you would want to spend more time with them in future, so would recommend you seek more time.
Sorry that should of said every Wednesday and Friday Saturday every other weekend. My solicitor advised letting the Judge deem about the school holidays etc. She is 10. I get this to 52 week nights 52 weekend nights plus the holiday nights.
Hi,
What about fri-sun every other weekend, 1 week in xmas, easter, 2 weeks in summer? How old are the kids? You may find that you would want to spend more time with them in future, so would recommend you seek more time.
Just a quick note. You have gave great advice bill337 and it is priceless
@obsession1 no problem. If you want to take child abroad on holiday, then maybe also a good idea to get that covered in the order 🙂
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