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Reporting a concern
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Report child abuse or neglect to your local council
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Will I be notified by the CSA if they check my tax affairs on the request of my ex? I'm being asked for higher payments, even though I pay more than I should based on the CSA calculator. If the checks are being made and the number is officially lower will I be made aware of this or is this just info that my ex can receive and then hide if it equates to a lower number that I am currently paying?
If the csa have been asked to calculate figures based on updated info, they will send out a new assessment of the amount you have to pay - goes to both you and your ex.
Ignore ex , shes just throwing toys out of pram and wanting more money. As long as u doing everything u should she cant do nothing
I have also been in contact by CSA, yes 100% they will send out both parties and could be lower been advised that could be the case.