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Hi
I wonder if anyone has experienced this and can offer some advice.
I have a joint mortgage with my ex partner in which she lives with my 6 year old son and her new partner. I have a court order in place that says if she co-habits for more than 6 months or re-marrys then I can take it back to court to try and get the property sold so I can remove my name from the mortgage.
How can I prove she has her new partner living with her? Any suggestions as they both seem like they are not willing to do the right thing.
Any help would be appreciated greatly!!
Hi There,
This won't be an easy one, as you would need to be able to have proof that they are living together, If her new partner still has his own home then they will almost certianly say that they aren't living together and that he just stay there a certain number of nights, That would be my first thing to try and find out, if he still has his own home and then I don't think you would stand much chance of proving it, but if you can show he doesn't then that would go a long way to showing he lives with her.
Even if you were to watch the house and see how often he stayed (I wouldn't suggest this as it would be classed as stalking) you still couldn't prove that he is living there only staying there.
GTTS
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