How can I prove my daughter is not in full time education

I'd appeal, requesting that CMS provide evidence that daughter is in FTE to refute your written statement.. Let them argue at appeal that it could be signed under duress, remember they will also have to question the integrity of the solicitor too.. If it ends up being an in person or video hearing, potentially your daughter could attend too? It's impossible to prove something like this, unless your daughter goes on to do something else that can be proved eg employment or signing onto benefits or paid apprentiship etc. 

@Daddyup Thank you for your reply. In regard to proving this, my daughter is in paid employment on a permanent contract, she was working on a zero hour contract prior to finishing college, but then moved to permanent once she had finished. I gave this information to the CMS, including the details of where she is working when I contacted them last, but it appears to have made no difference.

While on, my ex wife keeps insisting that the CMS collect the money rather than me paying directly, now to be clear, I have never missed a payment or given her any reason not to accept a direct payment, however, she knows that it costs me a hefty chunk every month in collection fees (20%), as opposed to the 4% they charge her. I spoke with the CMS who said I need to complete 6 months of paying them directly as opposed to the attachment of earnings, then after that they will approach the ex to discuss direct payment. They have said that she could still refuse and there is nothing more I can do. Is this correct? Everything seems weighted in favour of my ex, several years ago she inherited a considerable amount of money, making her net worth more than I will earn in two lifetimes, yet none of this is taken into account and I end up paying a ridiculous amount every month, leaving me struggling to make ends meet.

Having just read back through this, I sound like a proper whinger, I can assure you I am not. I do not begrudge my ex her money, she has lost pretty much all of her family along the way, and I hope she finds some level of comfort in the fact that she and the kids are financially set for life. My kids are my world, I have never and will never try to get out of paying for them, they are my responsibility until such time that they become responsible for themselves (then I will continue to support them both financially and emotionally), I just want this to be a fair process, where the payments are correct and I'm not left feeling as if I'm being punished by having every penny I earn taken away.

Rant over.......This is like therapy, thanks for listening.

CMS is based on your income only, doesn't matter re your exes net worth.. Once you get to 6 months of collect and pay you can then request paying directly, my understanding is that she can't refuse at this point as you have a history of paying correctly.. (although others may correct me).. If you have the evidence including payslips then I would defo appeal.. You have all the evidence you need... 

It may be worthwhile seeing a solicitor for the free 30 min session to see what they advise too... Or even pay a solicitor as the long term benefits to you would outweigh the short term costs of legal advice for getting this sorted... 

The system is unbelievably flawed and always sides with the PWC, My daughter also left school this year and I completely disbelieve she is at college, I have messaged her and asked her, initially she said she wasn't at college she was doing work experience, then she was at college but worked at a dog groomers on two day a week, then made a fuss because i was asking questions about college.

I also spoke to her mother, who informed me that CMS informed her I was now paying on direct pay, and child benefit have said if she doesnt receive a payment on the 1st of the month they will put me on deductions of earnings....im not convinced the child benefit can do that ?, everything i have been told stinks to me.

i spoke to CMS and asked for actual proof, but all i could do was ask the child benefit to check the circumstances hadnt changed, i made that call at 2pm, the very next day I received a letter to say they asked the PWC if the circumstances had changed and she had informed them it hadnt ?????, they asked.

in my line of work a fact is only provable with evidence, this doesnt appear to be how the system works and it costs me nearly 400 a month, The system needs changing and fast,   

@richc1 I am going through this just now with my daughter - her mum says shes at college but shes working Full Time. Can I ask how you got on? Did you manage to prove it? I have a tribunal next month just looking for some advice.

@tiredofthesystem the isse is that the child benefit system seems incapable or disinterested in following up fraudulent claims, and there seems to be no consequences to claiming fruadulently - that to me is the biggest issue with CMS.