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I now have my child every weekend of the year as well as an additional 5 days that I organise with the ex.
Does that mean my child maintenance will stop? Or will it decrease?
If you are paying via the CSA or CMS, then they work in blocks of 52 days, and each 52+ nights per year you have them results in a 1/7th reduction in maintenance. If you aren't paying throught CSA/CMS, then it's up to you to arrange this with the mother.
Hello Lenny15
I have included a link on how the Child Maintenance Service works and how they calculate child maintenance that you may find useful, https://www.gov.uk/how-child-maintenance-is-worked-out/how-the-child-maintenance-service-works-out-child-maintenance.
If you have a family-based arrangement in place you may wish to speak to the other parent on if this would affect the amount of child maintenance you pay. Although family-based arrangements are not legally enforceable, parents can decide the terms of their agreement to suit their current circumstances, as there are no strict rules or formulas to follow.
For more information on all the different ways to set up child maintenance and for a more personalised service, you can visit the Child Maintenance Options website at http://www.cmoptions.org.
The DWP have a sorting out separation web-app that you may find useful. It offers help and support to separating and separated families. The link is: www.dad.info/divorce-and-separation/sorting-out-separation.
Regards
William
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