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Hi there
just wondered if you can assist.
I currently pay my maitenance to my ex wife via CSA. She refused to let me pay direct.
We have a consent order for a clean break order from the divorce but this did not specify anything about maintenance.
Can I set up a new consent order detailing just the maitenance?
I want to move away from CSA as I dont want my ex being able to get her hands on my occassional over times/bonuses that I might get that CSA want to deem as the norm.
Also how often do CSA review their cases? ask for payslips etc?
Also want to try and change it before the new changes next yr which would mean I have to pay more just becuase she refuses to pay directly
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