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Hi
At last the csa have agreed that one of my two children lives with me full time,but then they only excepted that know since I got it in writing from a judge.
But at present I have sent them information that he has lived with me for much longer ,information sent over six weeks ago but they still took money from my wages this week without completing there investigation from the evidence I sent them by recorded delivery.
Only when getting the prime minister got involved they are know starting to sort it out.
Problem is they are taking 20% from my earnings until its sorted,they should of concluded there investigation within 30 days or suspend taking my money until they had come to a conclusion.
money has been taken from my wages just realy from the lying of my ex wife who cant lye that my son lives with her anymore because of the court notice.
There much more involve with this but my question is they have said even if they agree totally with the truth I have given they say I will still need to pay 76 pounds a week to my ex moving forward and I said I have one of two children under sixteen full time as per court notice so how is this right.
They have said its not but the only way out of it is raiseing a case against your ex ,well if I would of known that 12 months ago I would of.
They have said this is the policy so again I have written to the prime minister who continues to respond to my letters very quickly so we will see what he has to say about that.
My letters back from the house of commons have been sighned by the prime minister so I do no he has direct input in relation to my issue.
I should not have to raise a case against my ex,the csa from the person that raises the claim should show there wages and from that the payment from each parent could be calculated.
The csa in my opinion taking my wages basically on the word of one parent to take money from another is not sufficient grounds for taking my money.
What I have told the prime minister if don't I get my money back by the end of this month I wont be able to pay my bills and will have to find someware else for me and my son to live.
The prime minister has been very supportive but further action is required.
I tried getting help from the press but they don't seem interested.
Due to this as requested I will be sending my information concerning this issue to ukip and all the recorded conversation I have had with the csa over the last 12 months if I don't get my money back by the end of the month.
I am under the impression reps from the csa are on here and if you don't no about me now because of this one being raised by the Prime Minister you will very soon.
I would suggest in future your return letters you write to the Prime Minister and his department sent on to me address him correctly as Prime Minister have some respect.
Just to add I do get child benefit for one of the children from the start of the claim against me.
To finish the csa have said what they have done is there policy I realy don't think it is but will make sure there is a change in the law or the people who have made me and my son homeless court action will follow.
At present emailing the tv talk shows to see if they are interested with my issues with a government funded organisation.
I understand the point of the csa and agree you should pay and be responceable for your children and I suspect lots of there work has made life much better for the children and parents, it must be a very difficult to sort things out but after spending over 10 thousand pounds in court action for the greater good of my kids I have no savings and the unjustifiable actions of the csa that affects me and my kids is unforgivable.
Good luck to all the dads and mums involved with the csa but if you are a woman from the way I have been treated you will get everything you want and more.
Hi all
Well here we are its the 30th and they have not agreed with the information I have given but it does seem there investigation did not cover the time I asked them to look into but after contacting them today they have said they will contact me again within 24 hours.
The lady I spoke to was very good and did understand my point of view.
Well if they don't sort this out tomorrow I will be back down at Tory hq on Tuesday.
Interesting no comments on my post but I will update after they hopefully call me so I can tell you what next.
I realy don't hold out a lot of hope so have instigated a small claims case to get my money back from the csa.
keep the faith.
Cbe
Hi there
I think the reason you haven't had any comments is probably because you aren't asking anything specifically, just giving a commentary of events. Thanks for dropping by and updating us. Good luck. 🙂
Hi and thanks for the response they did call me again today and basically said they did not believe me from the information I sent that my son lived with me that took hours to put together.school,caffcass,texst messages court notice.
They had a two minute conversation with the ex and believed her.
So sexual discrimination is another one to add to the list.
What they did say the arrears are due to I did not raise a case against my ex when she raised one against me I am still liable for four and a half grand.
Plus they also said moving forward and they know believe my son lives with me and unless I raise a case against her I will still have to pay her 300 pound a month plus arrears so 600.
So I raise a case today, funny that they would let me today where I have made two trys in the past where they would not because I was not getting child benefit for my son the worlds gone mad.
So the job for the weekend will be to right to the prime minister again to see if this is correct because there blaming the government for the policy.
I also ask them for a number in respect of there media department know sky have taken a interest but they say they don't have one.
There going to call me again on Tuesday to see if they can lower my payments so will see what happens but im stuffed realy time has run out.
Did speak to the ex to try and get here to drop the case on the ground that she is not telling the truth but just got the answer I know im not but I don't care.
Not much more to say realy this has turned into a dairy of events but if anyone can help who has been in this situation of the next step with a tribunal pls let me know.
So at the moment have started the small claim process to see where that leads and am of to tory hq again Tuesday to hand deliver my latest rant.
Hello all
Well started action against them in the small claims court and have got a tribunal coming up but the idiots have got the dates wrong on it so trying to sort it out sky tv now involved the csa and the pm had till the 19th /6 to sort this out and haven't so sky now have my data.
Yes this does seem a bit of a blog but might help someone moving forward.
my words of wisdom for today would be if you have given them a phone number to call retract that and tell them to write because you never get anywhere with them basically lying or record them all like I did mine are now with sky.
There is something fundamentally wrong when these idiots are aloud to take your money without proper investigation.
Did tell the pm you should sack Noel Shanagan hes the top dog with the csa who was supposed to sort my issue out as asked by the pm and hasn't but by the time I have finished he will be removed from his area of responceability anyway
Yes this does seem a bit of a blog but might help someone moving forward.
sorry about the spelling.
I won
Hi,
ive just signed up to this site and its great to see someone fighting for their rights and winning.
I haven't been so fortunate.
after a set of tribunals that have gone on for about six years I was unlucky enough to end up in front of a judge who had already decided that this was going to be the last one.
My ex offered no evidence whatsoever but that wasn't going to stop him proving that I was in the wrong
He refused to look at evidence that was already in my file . refused to allow a loan on my business account as an allowable expense, accused me of being a liar, held a conversation with the CMEC representative while I was excluded. The list is endless.
I decided to get a solicitor and appeal. We did so in time but the appeal was put in front of the same judge and funnily enough, he dismissed it.
We appealed to the upper tribunal but was given short shrift.
So here we are with a £12,500 liability that I really don't owe , and no means of appealing against a judge on a mission.
My advice to anyone would be to get a solicitor because when it comes to the CSA, you have to buy justice
Hi
you are probably right but when the csa is taking you for loads of money its not easy to pay for legal help. i did it my self and did get a positive verdict at the tribuneral but there still stuff going on with that one so will update in future,
i would suggest at the earlest point you disagree with the csa and that wont be long , right to your mp and get good legal advise if you can afford it.
If i was starting again with the csa i would not discuss anything by phone you can let them email or right to you,,they can be selective on what they right down from phone conversations and bring to a tribunerals
I was lucky i record all my home phone calls with them and it helps .
I still have unfinish buisness with the csa much to do.i have decided i will leave them alone after 2020 its become a hobby now.
The csa are not all bad and i suspect they do a good job for some people but my experence is it will depend on your gender,
But talking in general to everyone if you owe you should pay. and if you dont owe you will probably have to pay anyway and go via there process desighned to make you give up.
Sorry about the spelling
Hello
Forgot the point if you havent already right to your mp givng a brief decription on whats happened and when,there should be another opsion open to you .
Good luck
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