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Hi, I have been separated for 2 years and have (had!) a verbal agreement regards to how much I would pay the mother per month. This is done by standing order and I have paid every month. The mother has got herself in debt with all the [censored] she buys and is now after more cash. She is lying to CSA about how many nights I have the children in order to do this. They only believe her word.
However, I have recently changed jobs. I work in scottish waters for a company whose head office is in UAE. I think the payroll is in Aberdeen but the company is ergistered in Jersey. I am a UK resident but spen 2 weeks in 5 on a rig off scotland.
I believe that the CSA only has jurisdiction when the father works in england and wales and any orders they send are unenforcable?
Am I right or Wrong??
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