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Hi all. This is my story. I successfully appealed against two CMS decisions over shared cae after my ex kept lying to CMS that both my children were not staying with me. I even got two letters by the First Tier Tribunal stating that the appeals had been allowed. Here is the juicy bit. CMS never ever investigated the reasons as to why my ex had misinformed CMS, instead, they went though my business accounts, effectively interrogated me about them, found absolutely nothing wrong but still have ordered that my ex is paid £20k (yes £20 thousand pounds) as the business had retained profits that I could have taken as dividends, but obviously hadn't as my wages were enough. I haven't slept, haven't eaten. My already suffering mental health has gone haywire. I don't know what or who to believe anymore. Also, a few months ago I discovered that my daughter no longer lives with her mom. Instead, she stays overnight with he grandmother. I notified CMS who obviously asked my ex, were told that is not true and refused the change of circumstances. One rule for one, one for the others as it seems.
hi,
sorry to hear your having tough time with these issues.
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