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Hi, Im new here so I hope I'm in the right place.
I am hoping someone may be able to clarify a question for me.
I have been divorced for two years. I am 63, ex wife is 39. I have sole custody of our 13 year old son.
It's been very traumatic since she had many affairs during our marriage and finally left me for a younger man, but I have nearly got there.
She has never paid a penny towards maintenance for our son and after several letters from her solicitor demanding a piece of my private pension, (which I know she is entitled to six years of), I disclosed my income (which is 6k pa + working tax credits), and to get out of disclosing hers, she said she would not pursue my pension now and wants a clean break order set in, on the understanding that I do not chase her for child maintenance in the future.
I would like to know if this is possible? I dont want her any of her money, as I know she will throw it in my face. Can a clean break order stop me from asking her for child maintenance? I was under the assumption that children were not included. I just need to know for sure before I reply to her solicitor. Many thanks. Charles. :unsure:
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