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Hi
My partner has 2 daughters from a previous relationship, when they seperated my partner and his ex agreed to sort mantainance between themselves and got a court order for this. His oldest daughter is now 18 and not working or at college, his youngest is at college, when they first seperated my partner was on a very low wage, so couldnt pay the going rate, when his earnings altered he started to pay more, which was agreed by court order.
His ex is still expecting him to pay the same amount as he was paying for the two of them, stating the court order said he had to pay until they are 19, he has found the copy of the court order which says 16, when he told his ex she said if he didn't pay she was going to CSA to sort it and would expect the money he couldn't pay 10 years ago.
Please can you tell me can she do this, and should he still be paying for the eldest child
Thanks
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