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Csa are saying I owe over £8000 for my 21 year old and 20 year old twins and say I have to pay nearly £800 back a month if I do this I will not be able to live. The money does not go to my kids it goes straight to the mother. Do I have to pay that amount each month if it’s arrears and not going to my adult children.
hi,
if arrears are genuine, you can ask CMS to spread repayment over 2 years at minimum, they are known to give more time.
I recommend you join this support group for paying parents:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/239699060076601/?ref=share
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