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Hi, I an new to this group so hello all!
I was wondering what the situation is with a resident parent deliberately restricting child access and then applying to the CMS for financial gain?
I am currently in debate\awaiting mediation and am expecting a letter from the CMS. How do they view this when the claiming parent is controlling how and when I see my child? Surely they can’t just demand a sum when someone is essential fighting for access whilst I am also providing some financial support in the interim.
How do the CMS approach you there must be some dialogue/chance to explain circumstances?
Any advice would be most appreciated. Thanks in advance.
hi,
unfortunately this happens a lot. CMS would likely tell you to seek legal advice about getting child arrangements court order. I have been helping dads go through the process. If you need help, feel free to contact me. sending you private message.
Child contact and child maintenance are dealt with as completely separately issues. Payment of maintenance does not automatically grant access to the child. If you're having problems seeing your child then try mediation first. You will need to try this anyway if you make an application to court for access. There is a guide about the process on the advicenow.org.uk website. It is possible to make an application without seeing a solicitor. If a conversation, then mediation are not successful, you could probably get a short appointment with a solicitor to explain the process.
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