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HI I have 2 children one of 7 and one of 3, my 7 year old spends 4 or 5 nights a week with me but my ex wife refuses to let the 3 year old spend overnights aa she is "not ready " , so 2 things how does the csa work out how many nights per week it is as its different for bith boys and how do I force my ex to let both kids stay ??
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I'd have a word with the CMS about how they calculate payments where the overnights are different for each child, it won't be covered by the calculator.
With regards to getting more contact with your younger daughter, you would need to try mediation first to see if you can find a way forward, and if that doesn't work, you need to go to court for a CHild Arrangement Order.
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