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Child in care of Grandparent - Should I pay maintenance to them?

 
(@mart4985)
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Hi, 

My son was living with his mother (since birth) up until January and due to Tusla getting involved he now lives with her mother. This happened unbeknown to me and I don't know what this happened (I found out a month after this was decided amongst themselves)  

I do not trust that the maintenance I am paying to her is getting through to her mother? I do not have a relationship with either as its a very sour situation. 

I really want to pay the maintenance to the grandmother. Does anyone have any suggestions without having her bank account and I don't want to pay cash - how to go about making this happen?

Cheers      

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Topic starter Posted : 12/10/2022 6:06 pm
(@dadmod4)
Illustrious Member

I have no experience of TUSLA, but I would contact them and see what their advice is - you aren't trying to get out of paying maintenance, just trying to make sure it gets through to the right person.

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Posted : 12/10/2022 8:25 pm
(@dadmod3)
Honorable Member

I guess it depends on whether there is an order stating what maintenance you should pay.  If its voluntary then you can do what you like I should think.  Can you write to her parents?  Have you seen your son or tried to see him?

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Posted : 12/10/2022 8:28 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

Hi,

are you paying through child maintenance service? if so you could contact them and report change that child is now in primary care of grand parent.

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Posted : 12/10/2022 9:14 pm
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