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Well since we were in court I have seen my son one weekend. On the Sunday evening he asked if he could stay. I asked my ex who of course said now. I quoted her own words to her that we need to let our son have a voice and that he has voiced he wants to stay so I'm going to let him......haven't seen him since.
She also told me she was taking them out of the country on holiday this coming Friday. Turns out they left this morning.
I am supposed to see him on Wednesday's and she has also taken all 3 of my children out of school for the last 3 days of term. Didn't say a word to me about it and refused to give me any details about the holiday. Said her mum is down as emergency contact so I don't need to know.
She has also coerced my son into writing me a letter saying he doesn't want to see me whilst court is going on. He even used phrases my ex uses with me all the time in emails and texts.
Has anyone ever experienced this level of coercion?
Unfortunately, this isn't uncommon. As you've tried mediation, then you are going to have to consider court to get the level of contact that is reasonable, and also that she can't go off on holiday with no notice whatsoever.
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