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hi , i have done some payment on the account of my son , for some reasons i couldn`t do the payment via csa or my ex-wifes account .
Now my ex-wife claimimng some arrears those amount paid to my son`s account , also i haven`t put reference when i transfered money to my son`s account .
can somebody help me in this matter , is there a way to prove it ? even though my ex refusing to admit it ?
but my son he agree it and even phone the csa to confirm it .
any solutions ? do i have to see a solicitor?
thanks .
I would imagine showing a transfer to your sons account will be proof enough. Print out a statement which shows you paying an amount to your sons account, this will be enough proof.
hi thanks , i have sent all the statements but they don`t take it in count , because i haven`t put reference as child maintenance on the money transfered .
they telling me it could be a gift to my son , but the amount was the same each time of transfered , which was the amount i was paying to them at the time, calculated by them .
thanks
If you can find proof of the calculation, that might help, but unfortunately with the payment going directly to your son, you are going to have an uphill battle trying to prove that it is maintenance, and not a gift to him.
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