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Hi all
Just looking for a bit of advice about the current situation I'm in . I have a daughter aged 17 in further education. I currently pay child support to her mother & have some since my daughter was 5. Recently my daughter & her mother had a big bust up , they often clash alot & as a result she Is now living with me & has been for the past 3 weeks & it looks like for the near future too as her mother hasn't been in touch & vice versa. My question is how does this affect my child support payments? I understand I'm still obliged to pay it , but I would rather give the money direct to my daughter each month until she finishes further education. Surely if my daughter is no longer living with her mum , I dont have to pay her ?
Any advice would be great thanks
Hi there
Have you called the CSA/CMS to tell them about the changes?
If the mother is still claiming child benefit, you may have a problem getting the CSA/CMS to accept it. It might be a good idea to start a claim for child benefit and then you can claim maintenance too.... although there’s nothing wrong with you opening a claim for both at the same time.
Hi there
Have you called the CSA/CMS to tell them about the changes?
If the mother is still claiming child benefit, you may have a problem getting the CSA/CMS to accept it. It might be a good idea to start a claim for child benefit and then you can claim maintenance too.... although there’s nothing wrong with you opening a claim for both at the same time.
Hi
Thanks for the swift response I haven't yet contacted them as I dont pay direct through them , I have an agreement with my daughters mum which I was told to continue by the CSA when it ceased to existing a couple of years ago.
You could give the new(ish) CMS a call and open a claim yourself.
You could give the new(ish) CMS a call and open a claim yourself.
My daughters mother & her partner are unemployed they both have been since I can remember. Can I still open a claim ? Think in either event I need to speak to them & tell them the change in circumstances
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