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That might well be the case, but then he would be better directing his anger at the family courts and law itself, rather than the CMS who are simply executing it.
In your case, you just need to remember that you can't control what your ex does - don't waste energy thinking about it or getting angry (easier said than done). My ex pulls all kinds of stunts, and also had to go to tribunal with her on CMS so have been there and know it well.
But stick to the rules, or you'll become the person your ex is claiming that you are.
To bring some perspective, [censored] right in one observation that I am bitter, but the reality is I am bitter now towards the totally unfair method of calculation that the CMS use to come to the crazy figure that a parent without care has to pay in some instances
Taking away the emotion, if this is possible with human feelings, as I have stated how can anyone, even closet CMS sympathisers, stand and justify that the CMS can take what they call income that a parent without care never gets to see, in my case car allowance and benefit in kind in a car, madness I need the car to do the job to pay the maintenance, so how can this be income
This my bitterness, I need to get on with my life as well as paying for my son which been between 705 and 540 per month a system of calculating that would only be justified by the same accountants that audit Brussels
I am not diverting income, section 71 is clear in the wording as is the direction of the judge in the two cases that are precedent in such matters and in my case any request for variation would fall at the first hurdle as I would be making the payments into my pension on line the above and FSA direction
My final point is the CMS and the way they calculate your income with absurd numbers, forces some people into this, whilst working within the code and spirit ot the CMS
Ps I spoke with the CMS today on separate matter, my opinion remains the same the clown on the phone talked to me in a manner that was not only rude but assuming and unprofessional
Good luck dealing with these people
One final point I was not only polite to the individual that I had the misfortune to speak to at the CMS today I thanked them for taking the call
Perhaps I have just been unlucky in my dealings with these people but a quick check on comments even just in this forum would indicate otherwise
Tax calculation is nice if you want to track all your taxable income. Calculating taxes was always a problem for me. I hated calculating them because I had to spend a lot of time sitting in the chair and calculating. I was doing that only because I must calculate and my business can't exist without it. Once my friend recommended me a site that helps you to calculate the taxes. It works only for small businesses. This site saves me a lot of f time and helps me to calculate the taxes fastly and correctly. Now calculating taxes isn't a problem for me.
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