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Hi All,
My Ex is moving to the other end of the country with my 8 year old son, who up until recently has been living fairly local. She is going with her current partner. I have always had good access, the formal weekend every fortnight with him spending most holidays with us.
At the moment my maintenance arrangement has been by mutual agreement, and I have always paid over the recommended calculations on the CSA website. Even when redundant for 8 months I paid.
Apart from the emotional side of this move...my question is whether or not to formalise the agreement via the CSA so that I can justifiably cover the cost of the drive to go and see him (and accommodation) as I just can't afford to do it to maintain the current level of contact - and she is not willing to make the return journey or share the drive.
Any advice?
Cheers.