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i dont want to see my family, all my friends are busy. ive got no where to go. hes phoning me tonight to tell me what hes decided. 🙁
just an update he didnt phone me at all just text me a couple of days later saying that he wanted to concentrate on getting his kids back. Really down, at least i TRIED to help.
Hi another
Sorry to hear this has happened. He probably has very mixed feelings at the moment, and may be feeling sorry for himself, but it's difficult to understand what someone is going through - everyone is different I'm afraid.
At the moment, you need to get yourself into a better place. Get out an start to do things again - it's difficult at first, so try doing something like going to a gym as exercise does promote a feeling of wellbeing, plus it's a good distraction. Did you have any hobbies before you met your bf? If so, pick them up again, just start to get your life back again - it may be that your bf comes around and tries again, or it may be that you decide you want to move on - there's no rush to do that, but the sooner you get 'you' back, the better you'll feel.
Move on, try to find any distraction if are working now then try to focus you work m go out with your friends. As there is a saying that " when someone close their door some one open their window".
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