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As my son’s only 2 he has 15 hours of nursery a week at the moment, which don’t fall on my days with him. Eventually early next year it will involve at least one day of taking him to nursery/school.
In my case the woman was bad and evil. The whole money issue was just a smoke screen to cover her ego. She was living on a private road had everything no worry but the reality is I could have given her everything on this planet she would not have been happy because she was pure evil. She was a scientist by profession but the profession of someone does not define you as an individual.
As you rightly said there’s a huge strain on the dad emotionally and mentally and no one can understand until they’ve been through it. It’s like being buried alive but the positive part is they will themselves want to be closer to the dad as they grow older as a child never forgets their dad. I haven’t seen my 2 sons for over a year and at first they probably thought dad is probably playing a joke or something but not I’m sure they realise it’s beyond a joke and I know my eldest son definitely cries for me. God always finds a way....
In my case the woman was bad and evil. The whole money issue was just a smoke screen to cover her ego. She was living on a private road had everything no worry but the reality is I could have given her everything on this planet she would not have been happy because she was pure evil. She was a scientist by profession but the profession of someone does not define you as an individual.
As you rightly said there’s a huge strain on the dad emotionally and mentally and no one can understand until they’ve been through it. It’s like being buried alive but the positive part is they will themselves want to be closer to the dad as they grow older as a child never forgets their dad. I haven’t seen my 2 sons for over a year and at first they probably thought dad is probably playing a joke or something but not I’m sure they realise it’s beyond a joke and I know my eldest son definitely cries for me. God always finds a way....
I’m sorry for what you’re going through and can really empathise.
I feel emotional leaving my son at handovers. I can’t even begin to feel what you are having to go through.
Innocent Fathers have no mainstream voice it seems.
Thank you yes it’s the toughest phase of my life however I am hopeful as a dad one can only look on the positive side.....
Thank you yes it’s the toughest phase of my life however I am hopeful as a dad one can only look on the positive side.....
I wish you the best of luck.
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