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Hi,
I finally got the strength to leave my toxic un-healthy marriage 4 months ago. Just as she lied about everything else the ex said I could see the kids "As much as I liked". I am now having to take her through court to get more than 6 HOURS a week.
My five year old was a true daddies girl. Sat with me on the lawn mower, passing me the hammer and laughing all the way.
For the first 3 hours of my 6 she will hardly come near me. She never shows her affection, love or desire to be with me. She looks straight through me at times.
I have witnessed her throw the dad of the dolls house family away saying "We haven't got a dad anymore", she has been told by the evil ex that daddy doesn't love them anymore. The phone has been taken out of her hand twice while I have had my one and ONLY permitted conversation with her for her mother to abuse me infront of her.
Can anybody tell me how on earth I can get my girls and their love back???? It is by far the hardest thing I have had to go through (I have lost my business to the recession during the same four months and it pales into insignificance to this)