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It’s fine thanks for ur advice daddy up.
The best thing to do is especially as you are self represented is to do the course as they have suggested and ask for supervised contact . I think if you decide not to do course it will cause very long delays and result in even longer wait until you see your child again. The fact your child is on child protection and recommendations stacked against you including your son saying things. i would get on course and it will be over before you know it and you will be seeing your child again.
Sooner you start it the better as we soon enter the cold winter months and probably a second wave of coronavirus which would disrupt things as well. You wont get into bother with criminal courts its a course to address alleged behaviors and putting you back on track to see your child again with you doing a parenting course at same time ..triple x or something isnt it?
Hi I understand u. But the problem that allegations it was before in 2014. And I already confessed it in police station. But most of that allegations is not true so I denied it already. And in recommendation from cafcass officer need me I accept all that allegations against child and mum. If I accept that allegations then I can go to domestic violence course. But how I can accept accusations I didn’t do it. Even if supervisions contact is not safe at that stage as Cafass says that I’m danger as scale 4. And as child say a lot of things bad about me as his mother says to him to say that This the problem
Hi Tamika,
It's a matter of your own personal principles vs seeing the children.
You've had some good advice on here but now you may want to get some legal advice as to whether there are any other options.
Good Luck
It’s hard choices.but I already booked today consultation with family lawyer today to get last advice . Thanks to everybody give me advice here many thanks
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