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My ex tried to screw me for more money by going through CMS.
She should have checked BEFORE going to CMS. I have been overpaying by 90%! For years!
I am better off now through CMS.
I am retired - on a state pension.
She is a headteacher earning £95k+.
My private pension does not kick in until 2029.
I have taken some of the lump sum.
She is remarried, but is now divorcing HIM!
Can she go after MY pension? After she divorces the latest?
If she does, can I go after hers? Hers will be MUCH more than mine!
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