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Update
Met him second time now all smooth so far ex is very relaxed hopefully carries on
Thank you for the update, hopefully it will carry on smoothly 🙂
Good to hear Lost. Keep on with it.
Good luck
One thing I've seen him twice and she's being really really forward like sending messages on his Roblox talking like it's from him and acting as if I've seen him for years. How should I handle it
you mean your ex has via sons roblox account on the instant chat?
One thing I've seen him twice and she's being really really forward like sending messages on his Roblox talking like it's from him and acting as if I've seen him for years. How should I handle it
i think you should ignore it and focus on spending nice time with the child. don't think she's being malicious.
Oh no she's not being bad atall the opposite of what I'm use to tbh she's being mega mega friendly and over forward should I just go with it
hi,
yes just go along with it as shes being kind and supportive, and enjoy time with your son.
Hello chaps me again basically currently situation I'm sorta confused with it all I've met him 3 times and after the first time I was sent messages on a game he plays saying I love u so much and miss unso so much.
Thing is my ex said he can't spell or read well tbh so I think it's her writing messages to me.
Also she's really really pushy with stuff saying stuff like he adores me and he doesn't want to see my family now because he sees me lots of weird [censored] stuff back in the day this x was abit mad would follow me in her car weird [censored] obviously had [censored] got pregnant and I didn't see him to now. But all she does is slag off my other ex she's always hated her and is proper pushing him on me weird messages all the time saying I miss you so much and I know it's her because on person he's just a kid he's very spoilt and talks to her like [censored] really but all she does is slag off people and basically tell me everything about eberyone.
Thing is I still don't feel anything for him as bad as that is it's way to soon and her doing weird crazy creepy stuff doesn't help.
She also sent me a photo of his pillow she made and it had a photo of me and her from 8 years ago we hung around for a few weeks.
She also keeps saying he wants unto see his bedroom and wants all of us to go on holiday.
She's also purposely going at my other ex causing [censored] which tbh I don't care she's horrible but she's sorta acting like I'm on her side when tbh I'm not I couldn't care less about there pretty [censored].
Basically it's weird all of it. I'm currently seein him with her there and I really want her to go soon
hi,
so sounds like she's using the child to pull you in to get back with her?? you mention she is there when you meet your son, how does she behave towards you?
She's really odd overly friendly suggests random stuff that he says let's go on holidays ect I have not seen her in 8 years so it's all quite full on tbh I want her gone and just him but she said it's to soon
Her behavior seems to be very weird, however it's okay unless you can see your child
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