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II have a non mol station order how long potentially can this order stand for as the allegation are not true, i spoken with a police who said i could contest this order is that true. Also who can see this order and what are the ramifications ie if your employer see this? Obviously i no longer live at the house. The order state's i can’t take anything from the property, even if it belongs to me. Ie work tools , furniture.
found this info:
six months
How long will an injunction last? The court will normally make orders for a specified length of time (e.g. a non molestation order will normally last for six months). The order will not provide a long-term solution to the victim's problems, but should give them time to seek more permanent solutions.
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yes there have been few dads on here, who contested the non-mol in court, when they made court applications to see their kids
It depends on the severity really, but usually 6 months. You do have the option to contest this, and this will be discussed when you go to court for the first hearing.
You may want to offer an undertaking, this is what they call a "legal promise" there is no non mol on you, but if you breach the conditions, you can get in trouble.
You can choose to accept the non mol on a no admission basis with no facts or findings made against you. If your exes solicitor will not accept the above, then you will have to contest it if you can prove the allegations are false.
Do not worry about an employer, I looked in to this and non mols do not appear on any DBS checks,
If the allegations made are untrue and hold no substance then I would not accept any of it, if you do then this could work against you if you are seeking an order to see your children.
At the first hearing, I would inform the judge of your intention to contest it, you will then be provided a listing of the actual allegations your ex is making and have the opportunity to challenge. Evidence is the key here, if you ex makes a list of 20 or so allegations, the judge will look at the top 5 and if you can counter them with evidence then the remaining allegations get thrown out
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