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I had been accused of sexually abusing my 3 girls aged 7/9/10 at the time 2021 by disgusting weed smoking vile individuals, my children cleared me within two days , child services cleared me within one month after that , then my ex decided to go back to the police and get my ten year old to say i did it ...
LONG STORY but now cleared - no further action that was in 2021, turned out my daughter NEVER even said that ? caff cass year later did assessment and confirmed all 3 children confirmed dad has never touched them in a sexual way
tried court etc they just side with her, (again very long story)
My middle child wants to see me the eldest and youngest dont (thats down to the mom)
MY QUIERY
A friend who is a teacher as stated that if i contact the school (high school) which i have, and asked if i can pop see L (middle child who wants to see me) when i work up there they have to let me, long as there is no injunction or orders (which there arent) they will obviously flag with the mom who will say no at all costs and throw all sorts at them to stop it, but my friend said if you are on birth certificate and have ID and L wants to speak with you they CANNOT stop you? thoughts?
(i live two hours away)
hi, yes as long as you have Parental Responsibility, and there is no injunction or court order preventing you from attending school, you can do that.
but be mindful that if your not in contact with child or mum, they may be off sick from school or absent for another reason, on the day you turn up.
you could also have word with schools pastoral support, see if they can assist in rebuilding relationship with your child.
thanks pal sorry i only just seen this reply? i am going on a random day i wont tell them when could be any week, i have called the school they are going to get back to me, i was arrested , never charged , no futher action but BELEIVE me she wants me dead...
she will tell them all sorts, my stance is can they by law refuse me who has my passport all ID and done it the right way? can they say no? so there is nothing stopping me taking my daughter out the school? not that i would , i just want my daughter for 2 mins to tell her to watch my you tube channel i do them videos on there my friend already went to the school and gave out about ten flyers with the you tube channel on and a personal note for them
You can ask the school to send to regular reports on your children's progress
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