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Hello
i I am sorry if I am not allowed in this group , but I am trying to help my brother. He pays £170 a month to his ex wife for his son who is 13. However my nephew spends 4-5 nights a week with his dad. My brother also gives my nephew extra spends when he needs it.
so far this week my nephew has stayed with my brother everyday.
i don’t think it is right in any way shape or form. Why won’t anyone help him to sort out his payments. Surely he shouldn’t be paying so much when he has my nephew so many times.
again I am sorry if I am not allowed to be in here.
but any advice would be great
thank you
hi,
so he is paying through CMS I take it?
what are his regular arrangements for seeing child? is there a court order in place?
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