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Hey everyone.
just looking for some advice. I’m seeking my kids mother who was paying csa but has recently disappeared abroad. I’m looking to go through REMO but it’s asking for the country to which she moved. I have no idea.
is there anything I can do?
thanks in advance.
hi,
sounds like it may be next to impossible to find out which country she is in, unless she discloses on social media for example. she abandoned the children?
@dadmod2 pretty much. Her visits were sporadic at best in the first place. She threatened to move abroad a few times before but looks like he’s actually done it now.
Just wondering if HMRC or another government body would know where she went? Even then I’m guessing due to privacy they wouldn’t disclose the information
passport office probably know, but likely they won't tell you. if someone is determined to avoid paying to support children, it can be a fruitless exercise in trying to make them pay.
@dadmod2 figured as much. Just crazy how someone can up and vanish like that. Thank you for your replies.
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