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Hi had anyone had any hassle off ex partners were at first they would say your mentally abused them then saying you didn’t want to know your child and now saying that the child might not be mines a night before the court hearing as that’s the hassle I am now hearing and to be honest I believe it to be scare tactics to try and get me to back off with court as I am the one who ordered the court
hi,
yes court is going to be a bumpy ride. an emotional roller coaster. don't take the bait and let your ex provoke you. have to try and be disciplined. Respond, don't react.
I am currently letting the lawyers get it resolved and get I’ve asked for my lawyer to ask the judge to get a dna test done so that it can get resolved ASAP as to be honest I do believe it as just bait to try and get me to go away from court but I ain’t budging
You would be much better off not using a solicitor at first as it will cost you thousands. You can get a dna ordered yourself without needing a solicitor to ask for you. Also ignore ex as its all wind up tactics so you give up and react
You can self represent if you would like to. Some people prefer to use a lawyer. It has to be your personal preference and financial circumstances that dictate this.
The court can order a DNA test if that appears to be the first stumbling block.
As has been said. Don't react to your ex. Try to stay calm, jump through the court hoops and focus on moving forward.
Best of luck.