[Solved] ex controling and damaging kids minds

i see its i can work around kids, however myself and my ex were home schooling. more my end and now its all disrupted .the court at present could take months...

You need to go for child arrangements order c 100 as soon as possible. In meantime grab what u can off ex contact wise until you get to court. In meantime dont tell her u applying to court as she may stop contact . best she finds out when it lands on her doorstep .

You will need to work out when u can have them based on your work schedule. This is best based on the assumption they are in school when working out when u can have them term time . Every other weekend is very common and half of holidays. Can u do a school run during the week say at 3pm and drop them off to school next morning if required?

hi yes ive filed for court 2 weeks ago. she has broken our 50/50 as we have never had it cemented in court , she has refused mediation twice now. and the last time was a couple of weeks ago so i filled my c100 form and a c4 to find were she lives as she has never told me however it is close to my home due to her meeting me on drop off.

he has already applied for c100.

my work is flexible as i work for myself.. i do home schooling with my kids. not shore what my ex does , shes ment to however has text me in october saying she cant coupe yet dosnt want to put them in school.. shes a deprest woman and drowning and is doing it to my kids. thats another resson i want 50/50 care i would go for more as they need it, thanks for conecting

hi yes i have, ive also applied for a c4 as i dont no her address as she never told me..

that's strange, if she's telling you she can not cope, then why does she not let you spend more time with the kids?

She wanted a diffrent set up with what we were doing in relation to the nights with the kids, so i went to mediation twice and she declined now shes saying our kids only want two nights with me.. that is a 2,4,6 year old... its to do with shes a bully and has said shes contacted police, social services, and a socisitor , and said shes within her rights to withhold them .
nothing like putting the kids first a.

yes that's the problem. when they behave like that, there is not much you can do, other than going to court. Have you received a date yet for court hearing? if not you should email or ring the court for an update.

hi bill337, no court date yet. i contacted the court and they said my case is awaiting what the judge says as the next steps . so hopefully a date will be soon . it so tuff when this bully is denying me my time and with my kids and only allowing one or two nights speraticly.
hope your well?

Hi JPT,

hopefully you get a hearing date very soon. Am doing fine thanks. Just waiting for covid nightmare to go away. as every time someone over there gets covid, I can't see the kids as they need to isolate.

sorry to hear this. what a nightmare i hope you see your kids asap.