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Is this your first hearing in these proceedings? Is the Cafcass Report a Safeguarding letter or a Section 7? What are Cafcass recommending?
Enforcement hearing Thursday 18th February ( 2moro)
well enforcement hearing didn't go great its been adjourned till 17th march as we hadn't been sent the caffcass reports,
so basically she told caffcass that I'm on drugs and when i drop or pick kids up she can smell alcohol on me, that i leave the kids on there own while i go out, that the kids share a bed and a room with my partners child and that my partners child bullies my sons
i don't take drugs and i only drink occasionally never when my children are here, when my children are with me and i have to pop out or go to work my partner looks after them so they are never left on there own, there's a triple sleeper in the boys room my partners son has top bunk and my 2 have the double on the bottom they like sharing and when they tell me they don't want to share anymore we will just get another bed in there, and there's no bullying going on kids argue and fight that just kids.
they have suggested to court a drug and alcohol test aswell as a section 7 report and any visits should be supervised
i have asked to see my kids but ex says it has to be at her house with either her or her mum supervising and that's my only option, which im not comfortable with as it would put me in a position where more false allegation's could be made
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