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I’ll try to keep this short but this is my story. 15 months of agonising [censored] fighting the corrupt organisation of the CM. A husband that nearly became one of the statistics of suicide caused by CM and the lying deceitful benefit fruadster that is his ex. She (as she doesn’t even deserve to be addressed by her name ) lied to CM claiming daughter was in full time education . She wasn’t by the way. Restarted CM claim and my husband was facing £4k arrears and monthly payments. Went through mandatory reconsideration, a tribunal and won (she decided to close the case and reject the arrears just before the court date ohhh and just before her child benefit ended!!!! Funny that!!!!) we still went to court to let the truth be heard had every bit of evidence and she didn’t bother to show?apparently her evidence was an application form for a college and her word. CM couldn’t have given a [censored] about all our evidence because she was fraudulently in receipt of child benefit. 2 months after our tribunal win heard nothing from CM so sent a 300 plus page complaint. Still no reply so sent a letter to the resolution team. Still no reply. So went to the MP. They had to look into this then. Upshot is they claim they made no mistakes!!!!! Even though their final letter had so many apologies in it. They won’t pay us back won’t pay compensation and no action will be taken against her!! In effect they are overruling a judges order which I think is actually illegal!! So CM are saying then it’s acceptable to lie, claim benefit fraudulently, give false evidence . Benefit that was claimed for 18 months. Yes tax payers….. that’s your money being fraudulently sucked from the system….. Rang benefit fraud only to be spoken to like I as the criminal. Yet all you hardworking dads will be threatened of losing your DL having to sell your home or go to jail if you refuse to pay. The CM is corrupt, operated by people who really don’t give a [censored] about how they treat you, make up fictitious figures from thin air, lie to you and show no empathy for your well being. So I guess what I am saying is I wish I hadn’t wasted 15 months fighting an organisation that I was never going to win. The CM is outdated, and needs reviewing desperately. It’s bias and unfair and takes no responsibility for its actions. So stay strong dads out there. Karma is a [censored] and one day those lying fraudsters who are trying to scam you will meet karma full on and I hope she bites them hard.
I sympathise with you I have been arguing and fighting with the corrupt system CM who has put me over 4K arrears shown no evidence as how they reached this amount listen to lies of mother and bias towards fathers I’ve listed my job I’ve had a breakdown in dealing with these no good incompetent useless system I wish they burn In [censored]
keep strong don’t let them grind you down
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