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I recently had a child arrangement order agreed in court middle of January to see my children every 2 weeks for a minimum of 2 hours. I thought that would be it and things would get better but it's still been left in the hands of the children to make their own decisions so the order is not being kept to. I got the below response and I'm not sure what I should do next it's exhausting.
I've tried looking for articles for you to read between studying for exams I have due. I can't do this no more, it's too much on me, and the kids. D said he is coming with you Saturday but you either need to let it go or take us back to court but there are correlations between D behaviour and pushing him to see you, A doesn't want to be around me because she thinks I'm making her see you
hi,
sorry to hear your having a difficult time seeing kids. how old are they?
@byrondjones I see, very precarious situation due to their ages. I don't think Court can do much, other than ask mum to encourage/facilitate contact between kids and dad.
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