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I'd like abit of advice on possibly rekindling my love for an ex who I have a daughter with
My ex got involved with a new bloke when we parted and there was domestic violence resulting in numerous police incidents and social services involvement
My daughter was placed with my exs mother under a special guardianship order
I see my daughter whenever I want to as the violence was nothing to do with me
I've now been told by my exs mum that if I continue to see my ex she will make my contact with my daughter with social services
Is this blackmail
hi,
not sure what to think. have you had any contact with your ex, does she want to speak to you? if your ex's mum tries to stop you seeing your child, you can always take the legal route.
There may be special terms of the guardianship order, but I would say that you really need to talk this through properly with your ex's mother. I don't think it's blackmail - she sounds like she is looking out for the interests of your daughter,
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