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I currently pay £300 a month to my ex partner and have just been put on a bonus scheme. This can range largely month to month from £80 - £500 and will never be consistent.
How does this work with my payments as it is not a set amount a month and could sometimes be nothing! I already pay all the kids phone and activities alone and cannot afford to pay anymore.
Will I have to pay monthly based on my income or will it become an average? I don’t want it to go up totally and have to pay more when I’m not getting it myself.
Would appreciate any help or advice, thank you.
hi, are you paying through CMS? if so you would have to let them know abour your bonuses, and they will make decisions. perhaps they will apply 25% threshold to your income, where they make changes to youe payments if there's been 25% change
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